Guard, Engage and Supplicate: Purifying our Tongue

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There is an organ with which we have been gifted and we use it regularly to get through our daily lives. Despite our constant usage, we often underestimate the powerful impact it is capable of producing. Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has instructed us to restrain it. For it carries so much more weight than we perceive.

That organ is our tongue. Small in size, yet it can determine one’s fate. How often do we utter phrases which hurt others? How often do we engage in backbiting thinking it’s just a few harmless sentences uttered in secrecy?  Do we even realize the benefits reaped by reciting dhikr?

Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

“A man speaks a word pleasing to Allah, not realizing that it is worth so many rewards, for which Allah records for him His Good Pleasure till the Day he meets Him, and a man speaks a word displeasing to Allah All-High, not realizing that it leads to so many sins for which Allah records for him His Displeasure till the Day he meets Him.” (At -Tirmidhi, rated it as authentic)

The tongue can drag a person deeper into the Fire as our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that:

“A man speaks a word without considering it of any importance, yet for it he will sink down into Hell further than the distance between the East and the West.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

The above hadith stress the importance of taking heed to the words we utter. With the help of Allah, we can control our tongue and steer it towards the right direction through motivation, constant practice and dua. A simple 3 step process can get us started.

1) Guard

Firstly we must guard our tongue. This requires us to secure it from speech which displeases Allah. This is done by leaving the sinful habits linked to our tongue such as backbiting, lying, slandering, engaging in arguments, ridiculing, excessive and useless talk.

2) Engage

Once we have guarded our tongue from sins, we must engage in actions that please Allah swt using our tongue. For instance, by engaging in dhikr that carry heavy rewards.

Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Who-ever says ‘Subhan Allahi wa bihamdi hi’, one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea.” [ Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

Other actions include expressing gratitude, reciting istighfar, praising others, speaking the truth and phrases that reflect good manners and character.

3) Supplicate

A phrase which I cannot stress enough – never underestimate the power of dua. Duas can change our lives. And unfortunately many of us find ourselves stumbling across the problem of not making enough dua. Along with our ongoing efforts, we must make dua! We must supplicate that Allah swt enables and makes it easy for us to utilize our tongue in a manner that pleases Him. Do not let the shaitan wither away your hope.

May Allah make it easy for you and I to purify our tongues so that we can worship Him better.  Ameen.

New Course at JILC: Arabic Step by Step

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ANNOUNCING A BRAND NEW ARABIC CLASS WITH MUHAMMAD TIM HUMBLE AT JUMEIRA ISLAMIC LEARNING CENTRE
Arabic Step by Step is a brand new class, starting this December at JILC. For both brothers and sisters, the course is scheduled to last a year, made up of 4 terms, each term being 10 weeks long. The aim of the course is to take people from beginner to intermediate level.  We have only 45 places available for the first term, so we encourage you to register quickly by clicking the button below.
ABOUT THE FIRST TERM
Venue: Jumeira Islamic Learning Centre.
Timings: After Ishaa; prayer, every Saturday and Tuesday, for 1 1/2 hours. To get the most out of the course, we would recommend that students are willing to commit to a further 1-2 hours of self-study per week.
Who Can Attend: The course is open to both brothers and sisters.
Level: Beginner – no prior knowledge of Arabic required, although knowing how to read Arabic would be beneficial. Intermediate students may also benefit, depending on their level of Arabic.
Topics Covered: A wide variety of speaking, listening, and comprehension topics relating to Classical Arabic, including a dedicated speaking and listening segment in each lesson.
Course Book: We will provide notes in PDF format from a variety of books and sources. Students will also have access to online classroom tools, to facilitate learning both inside and outside of the class.
Fees: 1200 dirhams per term.

Islamic school under construction in Dubai

Looking for a full time Islamic school in Dubai? Your wait is about to come to an end. International School of Creative Science (ISCS) is opening a branch in Nad Al Sheba, next to Repton School. Currently operating in Sharjah, the school offers a dual curriculum program covering the British curriculum as well as UAE curriculum for Arabic language, Islamic studies and Quran studies.

Integrating Islamic studies into your child’s regular school education will help develop a school environment more conducive to their Islamic upbringing. Such Islamic schools are widely prevalent in North America, however much needed in the Muslim world. The  building of ISCS in Dubai is a step forward.

Learn more about the International School of Creative Science.

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NEW muslim summit

The only Islamic Conference dedicated to new muslims in the region!

When: 29/10/2015 to 30/10/2015
Where: Mamzar, Dubai, The Cultural & Scientific Association – click here for location map
About the Conference

New(Muslim)Summit, or N(M)S, is a  conference dedicated to New Muslims. We address the social, economic, psychological and spiritual challenges faced by New Muslims using a three-pronged approach:

Awareness

We generate awareness within the Muslim community of the challenges faced by New Muslims.

Education

We educate the Muslim community on how to address these challenges.

Engagement

We facilitate continued engagement with New Muslims well after the event.

We know that you’ve faced or continue to face many challenges after accepting Islam. You have many questions but don’t know who to ask. You need help but don’t know where to get it. You feel as if you’re alone in your struggle.

Find out more

Who Should Attend? 

If you are a New Muslim, this event will be everything you ever wanted in an Islamic Conference. All but two of our speakers are New Muslims themselves. You’ll be spiritually uplifted and motivated. You’ll find answers to your most pressing questions. You’ll gain access to people and resources that will help you in your religious duties and daily life. You’ll interact with dozens, if not hundreds of other new Muslims, as well as the wider Muslim community.

If you are a born Muslim you will benefit from the educational material delivered by World-renowned students of the Islamic Tradition, strengthening the ties of brotherhood by networking with other Muslims and the re-energized faithful zeal that occurs whenever you attend Islamic events.

If you are a non-Muslim who’s curious about Islam or Muslims we’ve included exclusive Q&A events for you. You’ll get to meet and interact with Muslim converts. You’ll be able to ask whatever questions are on your mind, no-holds-barred. You’ll get to experience Islamic hospitality at its finest.

Speakers

Sajid Umar, Muhammad Tim Humble, Abu Mussab Wajdi Akkari, Muhammed Khedir Essa, Zilong Ma

THE ARROGANCE OF SHOWING OFF (RIYA) AND 5 GOOD DEEDS TO OVERCOME IT

 by Brother Muhammad Nubee
When: October 8th, 2015 –  8:30pm to 9:30pm
Where: Jumeirah Islamic Learning Center, Al Wasl Road, Jumeirah [click here for location map]
About the Lecturer

Muhammad Nubee is an American-born citizen who reverted to Islam in 1976. Brother Muhammad is a lecturer, motivational speaker and life coach. Upon his reversion, he became actively involved in dawah by volunteering in the prisons to teach Islam to prison inmates. He eventually became one of the first full-time Islamic Prison Chaplains in the United States. In addition, he served as Imam of a local mosque in the US for several years as well as served on mosque and Muslim school Boards of Directors.
In 2001, Muhammad moved his family to the United Arab Emirates. While in the Emirates, he became actively involved in Islamic learning programs, lecturing in various dawah centers, giving the Friday sermons to English speaking congregations and hosting an Islamic program on Sharjah TV. Most notably, in 2006 brother Muhammad co-founded Muslim Life Coaching and in 2009 developed and delivered a course on Islamic Management in Doha, Qatar, now an online course for the Islamic Online University.
In addition to active involvement in Islamic projects and activities, he also held professional positions in US governmental agencies as well as several US Fortune 500 companies. Currently, he is Principal of Al Resalah American International School, Sharjah and CEO of Orange Education and Management Training, Dubai.

THE SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
A Muslim’s guide to being a better spouse, parent, friend, neighbour & much more by Ustadh Muhammad Tim Humble

Secrets of Successful Relationships (1)
When: 1st Thursday of every month
What Time: : Immediately after Maghrib
Where: Jumeirah Islamic Learning Center, Al Wasl Road, Jumeirah [click here for location map]
How much do I pay: Nothing!! Its absolutely FREE (Just walk in with your family and fill in the the registration form on-site)
About the Lectures
Join Muhammad Tim Humble first thursday of every month to learn about the secrets of successful relationships.
The talks will be 45 minutes to an hour in length, delivered informally, with time for questions and answers. They are suitable for the entire family.
A wide range of topics will be covered in the upcoming months, based on subjects that are relevant to the Muslim family & society, based on the texts of the Qur’an and the Sunnah, including:
  • Strengthening the parent-child bond
  • Becoming better spouses
  • The true meaning of a friend
  • Knowing the rights of the neighbours
  • Etiquettes of a student of knowledge
  • Miscellaneous topics of interest
About the Lecturer
Ustadh Muhammad Tim Humble is a graduate from the Faculty of Hadeeth Studies at the Islamic University of Madinah. Notably he is certified in the six canonical books of hadeeth. He has recently joined Kalemah Center, Dubai as a full time teacher for the English Section. He travels the world lecturing & delivering courses on Islamic Sciences.

Important Notes: –

  • Limited seats available. Hence try to reach on-time.
  • Separate seating available for sisters

GROWING ELEMENTS OF SUCCESS IN YOUR LIFE

 

Why seek success? These IMG_2916days with so many distractions around us  laziness, heedlessness and wasting of time are traps that we as humans beings are easily guilty of falling into. These elements of unproductivity should be dealt with seriousness given the deep consequences they can provoke in the long term. Our lives have not been created to be wasted. Every moment counts. As Muslims, we need to devote our lives to seek real success while avoiding sins and the traps of unproductivity as much as possible. The life of our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon) was filled with initiatives and we should strive to do the same. Not only is seeking success critical at an individual level, but important for the Ummah to grow and flourish.  One day we will be standing before our Lord, held accountable for our deeds and how we spent our lives. The present world is a fertile soil for us and a means to cultivate fruits of success. We need to understand how to take care of this fertile soil before it is too late.

What is Success?

To be able to understand real success , it is imperative for us to understand the purpose of our existence.  It is clear that mankind has been created with the purpose of worshipping Allah alone.

 “And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)”

[al-Dhaariyaat 51:56] 

We are asked to believe in Allah, to submit to Him, to love Him and to obey His Commands. The Straight Path defined by our Lord is the only path that will nurture the fruits of success in both this world and in the Hereafter.

“Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)”

[al-Nahl 16:97] 

“But those who believe, love Allaah more (than anything else)”

[al-Baqarah 2:165]

‘Success’ does not lie alone in the path towards material resources nor does it lie alone in commonly pursued desires such as honor and prestige. Allah swt tells us that true and eternal success can be obtained by loving Allah more than anything else and by following His Straight Path through righteous deeds which He has prescribed for us clearly in the Quran and the Sunnah. Righteous deeds are those acts of obedience that have been enjoined on us and should be done purely for the sake of Allah swt. They are either obligations or commendable actions outlined in the Quran and the Sunnah.

Hence our ultimate goal should be to believe in Allah and His Oneness, to love Him more than anything else and to worship Him alone with humility whereas our daily actions should originate from this belief. Our faith should not be something that is detached from our realities or something that vanishes once we finish our salah or leave the masjid. Rather it should be incorporated fully into our lives. We need to develop the understanding and knowledge that will enable us to see how each action in our lives can bring us closer to Allah. Through such alignment, we will begin to perceive the value of each deed based on how it draws us closer to Allah. Such an alignment can give us the ability to realize our full potential and to be productive no matter what the circumstances. Building our identity around the love for Allah can give rise to motivation and actions that are righteous and pleasing to Allah — hence setting the grounds for true success.

To elaborate on this, let’s look at a brief example. Suppose someone goes to work every morning but experiences tiredness and laziness with little motivation. Instead of maintaining such an approach, that person should immediately think of how that very action can bring him/her closer to Allah. There are many ways to look at this particular situation. Perhaps that person should try to be more patient for Allah’s sake even when things get difficult and stressful. He/she could also develop an intention to spend their salary on their family and others who are in need as an act of charity. Furthermore, as an employee, that individual is entrusted with the employer to do their job right and to get things done. Given the mutual agreement, that person should fear Allah and maintain the trust with the employer. They should be honest and committed in their work and remember the following hadith – Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah loves, when one of you does a thing, that he should do it well.”[1]

Thus we should try our best to seek the reward from Allah swt through our daily activities as much as possible. Endeavouring to adapt such a mindset can open doors to real accomplishments, productivity and eternal success. Choosing our actions according to what pleases Allah can give us the ability to grasp the essence of life and discover inner peace. It can allow us to taste the sweetness of faith and worship while adhering to the remembrance of Our Creator.

Allah says (intepretation of the meaning):

Say: “Truly, my prayer and my service of sacrifice, my life and my death are (all) for Allah, the Cherisher of the Worlds

[Al- Anaam 6:162]

May Allah make us amongst those who are successful in this world and in the Hereafter.

References

Islam QA

Lecture Series ‘Faith Based Intelligence’ by Sheikh Moutasem Al-Hameedy

“Enjoining Right & Forbidding Wrong” by Ibn Taymiyya